Why is it okay to feel lost?

First of all, I hope no one's thinking that I'm talking about being lost in a jungle or in a city you've never been in before. You can feel lost even in the security of your own home. How? You may lack the feeling of belongingness. When I talk about being lost, I don't only mean physically. I'm pertaining to the feeling of not being where you should be, of not doing what you should do, or of simply not being with the people you think you should be with.

Why is it okay? It is because you still have time to change things.

If you're not where you think you should be or if you're not doing what you think you should do then what are you waiting for? Stand up and take your first step. There can be a lot of things that can hinder you from going to where you want to go. First, you probably still don't know where it is you're supposed to head to. That is still okay. Try everything until you find what it is that you want. This can be applicable to both your career or to the place you want to live in or travel to. Second can be financial problems. Not all of us were born in a first world country. I, myself, have been born in a third world. Don't worry. You can't get what you want with just a snap of your fingers but it's not impossible either. Even if you can't get the life you want as fast as you can, why rush? Life is not a race. Take time to save for what you need. There can also be other factors. You're probably thinking about the people you are going to leave behind. You just have to think of what you're priority is. Analyze everything and whatever your decision will be, just make sure you won't regret it. There a lot of things that we can only solve by ourselves.

If you're simply not with the people you think you should be with, assess first the people who are around you. Why don't you want to be with them? Are they toxic to you? You can't just leave people without saying anything but you can't also force yourself to be with them if they're not good for you. I can't tell you exactly how you can get the negative people out of your life. All I can say is that you always need to think twice especially if you've been with the person for such a long time. I'm not good at social things myself. I just know that we all need to surround ourselves with positive people.

Life is short but it doesn't mean that you have to get things figured out in just an instant. Take your time butt don't take too long. Plan everything but don't forget to relax and have some fun. Most of all, don't compare yourself to others. Thanks for reading! I love you guys!

Here's a not-so-old picture of me smiling.